Gh0stzzz Posted February 23, 2003 Posted February 23, 2003 I know this is pretty degrading but frankly I really don't care cause I won't ever get to know any of you personally anyways. ;DHere is the story....I met a girl that I got to know very intimately in a little over a weeks time she returned home far far away after almost 2 weeks. When she was here the 2 weeks we almost spent together was filled with humorus jokes and intelligent talks, there was no akward silent moments, in other words we got along well. After she moved back home we talked on the phone alot( every day at least an hour) for almost a month. She said she was gonna move here to my city in a few months after she saved up some money.The dilema....It has been 4 days now and we haven't talked with each other due to the fact that she said she would call me and never did. You have to understand this is extremely odd because we enjoyed some good talks and never went more than a day without talking with each other. Now the reason I haven't called her is because I don't want her to think I am being overly obsessed with her and she promised that she would call me next. So what do I do?Do I wait for her to call me meanwhile driving myself into a worried panic untill she does?Do I call her making her think that I just have to talk with her all the time? She may think I'm not giving her space.Is the lengthy long distance conversations getting a little bit expensive?Do I adress her about my concerns as to why she hasn't called me when she said she would, making myself out to look like I was upset and sour?What do I do?
Chani Posted February 23, 2003 Posted February 23, 2003 I think you should call her.If she hasn't called you for a decent reason, she'll just tell you it.. and everything will be ok.If she hasn't called you for some more... dodgy reason.. then you'll find out, it's harsh to find out something bad like that but, at least you'll know.And if she thinks you are being overbearing and obsessive, then I think that's a bit unfair to be honest. She said she'd call... Just ring her as say hi normally just as if you rang for a chat, and you can suss out from there if she's being funy with you or not. And then you can make a more suitable decision on what to say based on that...?I hope it turns out ok x
Gh0stzzz Posted February 23, 2003 Author Posted February 23, 2003 Yes that sounds good to me, I will give her untill later tonight to call me. Thanks Chani. ;)
rigel6669 Posted February 23, 2003 Posted February 23, 2003 If you really like the girl, just call her now, do not wait for her 8)
Gh0stzzz Posted February 23, 2003 Author Posted February 23, 2003 You know I was thinking about calling her now. I mean it's Sunday right, she's not working today, but then again I don't want to ruin her sleeping in one of the days she can. Ill give her a few more hours, and say hello.
Inoculator9 Posted February 23, 2003 Posted February 23, 2003 I'd make up some clever excuse, like you left your purse at her house or something.I would call immediately ;)
GhostHunter Posted February 23, 2003 Posted February 23, 2003 Make this real simple like: I doubt her not calling you and you calling her after FOUR days isn't obsesive....
nemafakei Posted February 23, 2003 Posted February 23, 2003 {Frowns at first sentence of 'story' paragraph}If you have a reason to call her, then why not? Unless far away means high 'phone bills.
Gh0stzzz Posted February 24, 2003 Author Posted February 24, 2003 Well it's almost midnight here and she never called nor did I call her. I will call her tomorrow after she is finished work and talk with her. I get this feeling that all she wanted me for was to have sex. It's a feeling I know all to well I'm afraid. :-[ >:( :(
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