The reason I bought this game in the first place is - I have nephew that is battling cancer. He is doing Kimo daily now. He gets board and asked me if I'd play some with him. If the games get to long he gets tired and needs to quit - but we have fun. We used to play a lot of Command and Conquer and Warcraft II and he had Emperor - so I bought in. I talked my other friend that used to play with us into purchasing also and we been trying to get up to speed. Anyway... my nephew's machine and connection is the slowest out of the 3 of us. QUESTION! - should he be the host? He seems to get dropped alot. I'm wondering if he hosts will he not get dropped and the rest of us play at his speed?