I think it's really great that you take such good care of your grandparents.But have you ever considered maybe taking a couple of steps back?Maybe the 2 of them need more time alone to realise that they are, in fact, lonely?Maybe then they'll start to really miss eachother and rethink the whole thing. Give your grandfather PokerStrategy to read to make sure he knows what he's doing when you're not there to cut in on his poker playing.It's really great and recommend it to any poker fans.And make sure your grandmother always has plenty of cab fare and a mobile phone so she can get around without you babysitting her. It will make the whole thing easier for you to bare too if your not as involved as you are now.If even just for a week or 2. My fingers are crossed!!!!!!!!